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A Little About My Approach with Individuals and Couples

My approach is best for those with a strong intention to change or feel better. It’s more productive than chatty and meandering. Bring me your most stubborn patterns, the things you really want to change, the hurts you want to heal, the memories you can’t seem to stop being haunted by, and the dynamics that are killing your relationship. Over 20 years, I have found that my work is especially effective in those areas of your life that other practitioners haven’t been able to help you move past.

For 20 years I’ve been a Somatic Psychotherapist, Couples Counselor, Coach, and now I’m a Mentor to Gifted Practitioners. I’m the creator of The Art of Relational Client Work, where I teach Gifted Practitioners how to become Master Practitioners by building a Catalytic Dynamic with their clients—one in which the relationship itself is a powerful instrument of change.

In my sessions, I work with individuals and couples.

Clients tell me they feel seen, safe, and genuinely cared for. My work is productive and rooted in deep relational integrity. I bring a grounded, skillful presence and I stay committed to learning and evolving.

 There are currently 4 ways to work with me.

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 Here are some of the things I’ve worked with repeatedly and successfully. There’s certainly more and you’re welcome to ask me about your situation.

  • Relationship issues

    • attachment issues, conflict, infidelity, sexlessness, jealousy, divorce, estrangement/disconnection, unmet needs, communication issues, emotional intelligence, emotional availability, codependence, parenting issues, open relationship, unhealthy past relationships, crisis, deception, dating

  • Anxiety/depression, OCD

  • Trauma/PTSD

  • Body-image issues and/or challenging relationship with food, eating, or exercise

  • Learning how to trust your own feelings, voice, and assessment of a person or situation

  • Perimenopause and midlife transition

  • Self loathing, relationship with self

  • Addiction and recovery

  • Sexual difficulty of many kinds

  • Sexual abuse

  • Recovery from narcissistic abuse at any age

  • Childhood abuse, neglect, or family dysfunction

  • Boundaries, anger, and issues of personal power

  • Severe stress, obsessive or intrusive thoughts, panic

  • Healing and regaining power due to oppressions or erasures related to sexism, misogyny, racism, xenophobia, body shame, etc.

  • Traumas associated with war, genocide, and the refugee experience

  • Choosing a child-free life or choosing to have children

  • Coming out, gender/sexual identity, and queerness

  • Hypervigilance/Nervous Sytem Dysregulation

  • Spiritual emergency/crisis

  • Chronic illness

  • The immigrant experience and being a child of immigrants

  • Making meaning out of incredibly difficult life circumstances

  • Loss, death, infertility, miscarriage, abortion, breakups, unfulfilled longing

  • Pandemic-related traumas

  • Recovery from past oppressive, misattuned, or unintentionally gaslighting therapists, yoga teachers, cults, or spiritual communities (including religious trauma) and other wellness-culture harm

  • Neurodivergence

I believe that clients have a right to informed consent, so I welcome questions about my political views so that you can know whether you’re safe with me and whether your rights and life experience are important enough to me that they’re reflected in the political actions I take.

I look forward to working with you!

 
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